What this asks, and what you get back.
A clean mirror, not a personality quiz. Here is exactly how it works, so nothing about the result surprises you.
What is this?
A short, structured self-assessment. It asks about your stated standard for fatherhood and about your actual, observable behaviour over the last seven to thirty days, then shows you the gap between the two.
What will I learn?
An overall Fatherhood Practice Score, a Fatherhood Drift Gap, five domain scores, a plain-English result profile, your strongest domain, your priority domain, and one seven-day protocol to begin closing the gap.
What it measures
Presence
Are you giving your children undivided attention?
Self-Command
Can you regulate your speech, temper and distraction under pressure?
Repair
Do you take responsibility and restore trust after failure?
Reliability
Can your family depend on your word and follow-through?
Truthful Brotherhood
Is there another man close enough to challenge you honestly?
How long will it take?
Eighteen scored questions, three context questions and one optional readiness question — about three to four minutes.
Is it private?
Yes. You can see your full result without giving an email address. If you choose to save it, we ask for four separate, unticked consents before anything is sent — see the privacy page for exactly what is collected and why.
Is this a judgement or a diagnosis?
No. It is a structured reflection tool based on self-reported recent behaviour — not a clinical assessment, not a measure of parental fitness, and not a “good dad/bad dad” verdict. See the methodology page for exactly how the score is built and its limits.
Set your standard, then report your practice
The test runs in two halves. First, five questions about the standard you believe a father should hold. Then eighteen questions about your actual behaviour in the last seven or thirty days — device-free attention, temper under pressure, repair after failure, kept promises, and honest brotherhood. The gap between the two is the Fatherhood Drift Gap.